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Pomade vs Clay vs Paste: Which Men’s Hair Product Is Right for You?

Men’s hair styled with pomade, clay, and paste

Introduction to Men’s Hair Styling Products

Choosing the right styling product can make or break your look. Whether you are aiming for a classic slicked-back style, rugged texture, or effortless everyday hold, understanding the differences between pomade, clay, and paste is essential.

This guide breaks down everything you need to know so you can pick the perfect product for your hair type and style goals. As barbers, we have tested these products behind the chair on real clients. Here is a clear breakdown to help you choose the right one.

Men’s hair products have come a long way from basic gels and sprays. Today’s styling options offer varying levels of hold, flexibility, shine, and texture. When it comes to pomade vs clay vs paste, each delivers distinct results — and the best choice depends on your hair type, desired look, and styling preferences. We will walk you through what each product does and help simplify your decision.

Pomade: Clean Hold with Control

Model with slick back hairstyle using pomade

Pomade is ideal if you want a polished, controlled style that lasts all day.

Origins of Pomade

- Originally made from bear fat and oils, pomade was a staple in early 20th-century grooming. Today, pomades use more refined ingredients but still deliver that signature smoothness.

Types of Pomade (Oil-Based vs Water-Based)

Oil-Based Pomade:

- Oil-based pomade offers strong hold with high shine but can be harder to wash out. It is best for traditional suits, slick classics, and ultra-structured looks.

Water-Based Pomade:

- Water-based pomade is easier to wash and rework throughout the day, making it a modern favorite. It gives similar benefits without the greasy feel.

Best For

  • Medium to thick hair
  • Slick backs, side parts, classic styles
  • Medium to high hold
  • Low to medium shine (depending on formula)

Pomades offer flexibility while keeping hair in place, making them perfect for professional or structured looks.

Barber Tip

Apply pomade to towel-dried or dry hair for best control. Warm a small amount between your palms, then distribute evenly and refine with your fingers or a comb.

Recommended: Matte Pomade for Men

For a natural finish without excess shine, reach for our Matte Pomade for Men. It delivers flexible, all-day hold with a clean, matte look that is ideal if you prefer a mens matte pomade that does not look greasy.

Clay: Texture with a Matte Finish

Model with textured matte hairstyle using hair clay

Hair clay is all about texture and movement with a natural look.

What Is Hair Clay?

- Hair clay is a styling product that delivers texture, volume, and a more natural matte finish.

Key Ingredients in Hair Clay

- Clay products often use natural clays like bentonite or kaolin, giving grip and thickness — especially helpful for thin or flat hair.

Why Clay Is Great for Texture

- If you want a lived-in, tousled look with strong hold and minimal shine, hair clay excels. It is ideal for messy styles, quiffs, and textured crops.

Best For

  • Fine to medium hair
  • Short to medium styles
  • Matte finish
  • Strong hold without stiffness

Clay absorbs excess oil, making it great for men who want volume without looking greasy.

Barber Tip

Warm the product fully between your palms before applying for even distribution and smoother application.

Recommended: Clay Pomade for Men

Our Clay Pomade for Men delivers firm hold and zero shine, giving you the best clay pomade texture for fuller-looking hair and all-day control.

Paste: Natural, Lived-In Styles

Model with natural relaxed hairstyle using paste

Paste sits between pomade and clay, offering flexibility and a lightweight feel.

What Is Hair Paste?

- Hair paste sits somewhere between pomade and clay in terms of performance. It typically has a creamy texture that makes it easy to spread and restyle.

Paste vs Wax: What’s the Difference?

- Unlike traditional wax, paste tends to be lighter and more flexible. It offers medium hold with a natural finish, making it a versatile everyday product.

Best For

  • Medium hair
  • Casual, textured styles
  • Low to medium hold
  • Natural finish

Paste is ideal if you want movement without locking your hair into place.

Barber Tip

Use less product and build gradually — paste works best in layers, especially if you like softer, lived-in styles.

Recommended: Clay Paste for Men

Our Clay Paste is built for effortless, everyday styling with a natural finish, giving you enough control to shape your hair without losing movement.

Comparing Shine & Finish

Finish plays a big role in how your hairstyle reads visually:

  • Pomade: Ranges from high shine to medium.
  • Clay: Matte to low shine.
  • Paste: Natural, low shine.

Go for matte if you prefer understated, modern looks; choose pomade shine for polished, formal styles.

Best Products for Different Hair Types

Fine Hair

- Paste or light pomade works best, adding volume without weighing hair down.

Thick / Coarse Hair

- Clay or strong pomade offers the grip needed to shape dense hair and keep it in place.

Curly Hair

- Clay helps define texture; pomade can smooth frizz when paired with moisturizing care.

How to Choose the Right Product

  • Determine your hair type.
  • Decide on the finish you want (matte vs shine).
  • Choose your desired hold level.
  • Consider your lifestyle and styling time.

Answering these will narrow your choice fast.

Styling Tips for Each Product

How to Apply Pomade

- Warm a small amount between palms, distribute evenly, then comb through for a sleek finish.

How to Apply Clay

- Work a pea-sized amount into dry hair from roots to tips to activate texture.

How to Apply Paste

- Rub into palms, apply through towel-dried hair, and style with fingers or comb.

Common Mistakes to Avoid

  • Using too much product.
  • Applying to wet hair (unless specified).
  • Ignoring hair type recommendations.

Start small — you can always add more.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Can I use pomade on all hair types?

- Yes, but lighter formulas work better for fine hair, while stronger holds suit thicker hair.

Does clay dry out hair?

- Quality clays rarely dry hair, but always pair styling products with a good conditioner or shampoo routine.

Can paste replace both pomade and clay?

- Paste is versatile but may lack the shine of pomade and the deep texture of clay, so it depends on the look you are going for.

How much product should I use?

- Start with a pea-sized amount and adjust based on hair length, density, and desired hold.

Can I restyle my hair during the day?

- Pomade and paste rework easier than clay, which is usually better for set-and-forget styles.

Is natural better than chemical-based products?

- Natural ingredients are often gentler long-term, but both natural and lab-made ingredients serve different needs. Focus on how your hair and scalp respond.

Final Thoughts from the Barbershop

The right product is not about trends — it is about what works for your hair and lifestyle. Whether you are heading to work, the gym, or out for the night, choosing the right formula makes all the difference.

At Two Brothers Grooming Co., every product is barber-tested and built for the Everyday Hustle.

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